The Arrogance of Bloggers

Posted by Sarah Mitchell on 8 September 2011 | 14 Comments

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Have you spotted arrogant bloggers? It’s taken me a long while to admit to being a blogger. If you read my first post, you’ll see how uncomfortable I was with the idea of keeping a blog. I worried about saying anything relevant. What I didn’t share was my worry about establishing a vanity vehicle for my own opinion. It struck me as an arrogant thing to do. I see a lot of arrogance amongst bloggers and it drives me nuts.

What do you mean by arrogance?
I’m not talking about arrogant opinions of writers or arrogant topics on a blog. I’m speaking about arrogant behaviour in people keeping a blog. A web log –or blog – is intended to attract, engage, discuss and share your ideas. It’s on the internet precisely for these reasons, to create an interactive community of people. Bloggers all over the world yearn for someone to read what they’ve written and comment on it. And yet I see people circumvent the spirit of blogging all the time.

4 ways bloggers demonstrate their arrogance
Here are four ways bloggers express their arrogance and, in some cases, disdain for their readers.

  • Me, me and more me – I’ve written about it before, the stifling inward focus of a blog. Unless someone is an absolute expert in a field, I don’t want to read a personal tome to the writer’s own greatness. I want the writer to pull me in, to make me relate their points to my own experience. The experts know this, only amateurs prattle on about themselves.
  • Gated content – Every fibre of my content marketing soul says I shouldn’t have to pay for gated content, especially on a blog. I’m still grappling with the idea of pay walls for newspapers but I will never, ever, pay to read someone’s blog. Ever.
  • When I read something good, I want to share it. If there’s no sharing widget or even a tweet button, I find it incredibly annoying. Ideally, I like to see a universal button that allows me to pick my network. In lieu of that, please provide the top three: Twitter, LinkedIn and Facebook.
  • Unanswered comments – I’ve written more than one post about commenting. Nothing - but nothing - smacks of arrogance more than someone who writes a blog post and won't answer comments. It’s akin to ignoring someone speaking to you in person and an indication your readers are not worthy of your attention. Even the blogging greats monitor comments and answer when appropriate including Darren Rowse, Joe Pulizzi and Jonathan Crossfield. And, yes, I know Seth Godin doesn’t answer comments but he doesn’t allow them either. When you get on his blog, you know it’s a one-way discussion before the first word.

Honest ignorance or intentional arrogance?
Some of these mistakes are made out of honest ignorance. I’ll retweet an article even without a sharing widget but I’m a lot more likely to do it if I get a leg-up from the blog owner. I never read gated blog content. I rarely go back to a blogger-centric site. The one that hurts the most is unanswered comments. It’s a terrible feeling to pour your heart into a comment and get no reply from the writer.

If you have no intention of interacting or helping people participate in your blog, I recommend you switch mediums. Keep a diary or an offline journal but leave the blogosphere to the goons like me – people who are looking for information and entertainment and want to have a good old chin wag about it.

Where do you see arrogant behaviour in the blogging community?

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  • Thank you, Joe, and thanks for stopping by.

    Posted by Sarah Mitchell, 16/09/2011 3:42pm (8 months ago)

  • Sarah...great post and awesome reminders. Thanks for the shout out.

    Posted by Joe Pulizzi, 16/09/2011 4:59am (8 months ago)

  • Hi Shakira,

    I agree, some of the behaviour is just honest ignorance. I'm hoping this post might open a few eyes.

    Thanks for stopping in. Like you, I tend not to read a blog that requires registration.

    Posted by Sarah Mitchell, 12/09/2011 7:05pm (8 months ago)

  • I never really perceived some of these as arrogance because my fatal flawa is giving the benefit of the doubt to all, but I know I'm put off by every one of the items on this list. Even just signing up to access a blog is just WRONG to me! Most of it I chalk up to inexperience or even failed experimentation, but there are definitely some who aren't so innocent.

    Posted by Shakirah Dawud, 12/09/2011 6:39am (8 months ago)

  • Hi Jayme,

    I've seen that too, bloggers who get 'too big for their britches', something my American grandfather warned about frequently. You make a good point and one I learned quickly in sales; it's much easier to sell to a current customer than to find new ones. The same is true for blogging. It's hard to build an audience so why alienate them with boorish behaviour once you begin to experience success?

    Thank you for your insight.

    Posted by Sarah Mitchell, 09/09/2011 3:48pm (8 months ago)

  • Fabulous post; spot on. I've also watched blogger BECOME arrogant after a year's worth of blogging and building a community that adores them. That is so boorish, and we flock away. When the newbies who don't any better stay and comment, they begin to see the arrogance. It's like a new sales requirement -- sell to a new flock so they believe.

    Posted by Jayme Soulati, 09/09/2011 7:16am (8 months ago)

  • Nothing is more encouraging after a busy day than to find comments on a post. How could anyone NOT respond? I'm once again reminded I have totally inferior blog commenting technology. My update is long overdue but I'll wade in anyway.

    @PaulHassing - I think you make a great distinction. Yes, your posts tend to be about you but only as it relates to common challenges shared by your reading community. You're a master at pulling people in with questions. I've never quite seen anyone keep a comment stream going the way you do. (If you're not familiar with Paul's blog, check out The Pulse: http://myob.com.au/blog/author/paulhassing/)

    @Tash - You're right, ignoring comments does enter the territory of rudeness. Glad to know someone else out there is avoiding gated blog content, too.

    @James Bull - You, too, make an important distinction between amateur and professional usage of the web. I can think of no other medium where the two are intertwined so much. Go to a library or bookstore and books are segmented by type. If you want literature, you're not going to run into children's books on the same shelf. I suppose that makes it both fun and challenging.

    Thanks everyone!

    Posted by Sarah Mitchell, 09/09/2011 4:21am (8 months ago)

  • Hi Sarah,

    As you said above, "The experts know this, only amateurs prattle on about themselves." ... like it or not, I think we have to live with the fact that the web is a playground for amateurs as well as a serious medium for professionals.

    @Paul: One way to create a conversation is to converse. When you ask a question (as Sarah suggested) and someone comments, reply to the comment. The other person will appreciate your interest and might be inclined to post a follow-on comment. Obviously it helps if your blog sends them an email notification of new comments.

    James.

    Posted by James Bull, 09/09/2011 2:46am (8 months ago)

  • Hi Sarah,
    it is all so true! I really hate seeing lists of comments, especially when they ask questions, and there is no reply from the blogger. I think it is more than arrogant - it is just plain rude!
    As for paying for blog content - no thanks, not going to happen.

    Posted by Tash, 08/09/2011 8:30pm (8 months ago)

  • Fascinating thoughts, Sarah! My blog posts are chiefly about me. But that's because I cast myself as The Fool. By showcasing my myriad mistakes, I hope to strike a chord with kindred spirits AND elicit guidance from those who know better. So far, it seems to be working. Though my poor wife often grinds her teeth at my brutal expositions. Many thanks for making me think. Again! Best regards, P. :)

    Posted by Paul Hassing, 08/09/2011 6:14pm (8 months ago)

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